Step 1: Pause and Identify True Priorities
When decisions feel urgent, take a moment to separate what matters most from what feels pressing. Needs, relationships, and long-term impact should guide choices, not fear or impatience.
Applying the eGRACS© Golden Triangle Paradigm to one of the most important challenges we all face β designing a meaningful and sustainable life in old age.
Quick choices often ignore emotional context and long-term impact. Even a well-intentioned decision can create tension if itβs rushed.
When decisions feel urgent, take a moment to separate what matters most from what feels pressing. Needs, relationships, and long-term impact should guide choices, not fear or impatience.
Even small decisions can be explored with options: delay, trial, or scaled implementation. Mapping alternatives reduces regret and avoids harming relationships.
Once a choice is made, plan how it will unfold and communicate clearly. Include emotional check-ins, contingency plans, and support for those affected.
Slowing down may feel uncomfortable, but it preserves trust and connection. Ask: